Dear Termite, I am so, so, sorry about your Dad..I, too, just lost my Dad, 75, on Dec. 21st and he was an athelete also, and always so strong..Write to me anytime, I feel like you, that I wish I could sleep thru this grief..My prayers go out to you..NK
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my dad died
by termite 35 indear everyone, my dad died suddenly and unexpectedly at the weekend.he did'nt turn up for a family dinner and my husband and i went to see if he was ok.he was dead.collapsed in his home.i can't stop shaking and i feel really sick.i've lost my mum and now my dad too.i wish i could sleep for months and wake when the pain has finished with me.
it hurts so much .sorry to bring everyone down-but i'm stressed at having to sort out his arrangements due to the autopsy and funeral etc and the house and my feelings.
; i just wanted to tell you all as my husband's gone for a walk and the children are asleep and i'm feeling scared about viewing his body, but i know i'll have to and i feel guilty for feeling like that.stupid thoughts racing through my mind at the moment-need to 'hear' a friendly voice .
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Posting reunion photo soon with my granddaughter
by Nancy K indear friends, i am relatively 'new' on this website, but i have been posting about not being allowed to see my granddaughter and the 'shunning' thing..i was just going to start a court proceding(my husband is an attorney)to try and get visitation, then my dad passed away..many of you wrote to me and showered me with much needed support.
thru my dad's 'passing', i had to contact my daughter and we had a long 'talk' and she wasn't 'shunning' me after all..my sister, who is a "double-life" witness told my daughter some terrible lies about me which were ridiculous, and my daughter at that time was being treated for depression, so she didn't know what to think(as my sister is a witness, and she naturally assumed she was being truthful)..i have a damaged neurological system from 8 months of very high-dose chemo, at times i use a cane, i have chronic pain, etc.,but it is all from my illness..my sister was telling my daughter i was on drugs, and yes i am on medication, but not medication that gets one 'high', this is medication i must be on for life.
so, thru my dad's passing, a miracle has happened, after 2 years of missing my granddaughter, in a few weeks i will be spending an entire weekend with her and my grandson whom i haven't seen, so my daughter and her husband can have some 'alone' time!!
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Dear Nina, Bikerchic, Meadow, Lilacs and all else! I have written to some of you regarding this 'mess' that WAS in my life and I believe Nina, you were like one of the first people I wrote to and Bikerchic I was in the chat room with you I believe my first time..I had 2 years of heartache, tears, you know, how freaked out I was..I am so, so, happy about this...THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!My love to you all..You helped me to "hold on"......NK
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Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?
by SpannerintheWorks into this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.
an absolutely appalling act.
who is responsible?
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Dear Emiliano, Thank you for posting that chronological 'list'...And your others..You know when I heard my friends talking about the hijackers' ID's, it peaked my interest...At first I thought, what the h*ll are you talking about? They were saying that the hijackers had stolen the identities of these "alive & well" men..AND what I eerily considered for a moment, was the fact that, (first of all, this is not the case anymore, but pre-9-11), you could go in to a number of different 'shops' in the "Village"(Greenwich Village), and ask for a 'fake ID' and these certain individuals, would have you follow them to a different 'shop' and ask you all the pertinent info., and you could customize your own fake ID..In fact, at times you didn't have to ask, they would offer..I saw this personally, as my daughter is 19, and she was approached, several times...Teenagers from all over this area, New England and God only knows where else from, were coming in droves to get ID's so they could drink..I believe they were charging about 60.00 a pop..We were curious how it was post 9-11, and these same shops, same people, had no idea what you were talking about if you asked, naturally..My husband , daughter and I are in the Village at least once a month together...So, yeah, when I heard about these stolen ID's, I thought about it...About the possibilites..NK
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Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?
by SpannerintheWorks into this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.
an absolutely appalling act.
who is responsible?
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Nancy K
Whoa, whoa! Hold on a minute..I didn't mean to jump into the 'deep end' of the pool without knowing how to swim, but as I orig.posted, I personally hadn't heard of this 'zionist plot' thing/hijackers being alive & well..I was out with some friends, ran into my Syrian friend and 3 people including my Syrian friend started discussing this theory..They had each heard of this individually..I live 15-20 minutes from the WTC, and was horrifically watching the towers burning that morning..I, like so many of you, are outraged at this terrible tragedy and ensuing loss of life...I thought I had missed some major news announcement, when they looked surprised that I hadn't heard of this story..I read all the posts, and I know how dirty politics are, I just can't believe how this administration (like many others), but because this was and is the administration 'in place' when this tragedy occurred is so forthcoming with its arrogance and ignorance..This is such a highly emotional issue, I didn't mean to offend ANYONE..I agree that living in the US, we need to speak and write the language, etc., and I love living in the NY area, as NYC has always been my favorite city in the world, (that I, personally, have visited)..My husband was born and raised in Manhattan and we, along with my daughter that lives here with us, have had nightmares and many midnight discussions regarding 9-11..The single FBI agent that was killed in the towers was from our town and we had a massive funeral here for him..Some of my neighbors have been in counseling to deal with post-traumatic stress after what they witnessed...I appreciate all of what I read and learn from all of you, and it would be very healing to know the truth and punish the true offenders...It would give us all some closure..I just felt so disgusted when I heard of this theory...I just think about all of the victims and it is very painful..Living here is hard, for the people, the families..It is here everyday..I have alot to be thankful for..My husband was not there that day or in his office in NYC, I am thankful..I, like you, long for peace with my fellow man..NK
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Another death in our family
by Mulan inwhile we were in hawaii, we learned of another death in our extended family.
our niece, my brother's daughter, had a stepson who died unexpectedly on january 1. such a tragedy.
he was a well known musician, in our area, so it made the newspaper here.
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Nancy K
Dear Mulan, What a sad story.. I am so sorry, you are in my prayers..NK
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what a difference a year makes
by blindfool ini'm a month away from my 1 year anniversary with jw.com!
this time last year i was working at a job i hated, arguing with my wife all the time about the wt, and just not sure what i could do about it.
i recieved some good advice from randy waters of freeminds.org (he probably doesn't even remember it) right about this time last year.
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Nancy K
What a beautiful commentary to wake up to today...Much appreciation to you..Patience certainly is a virtue! Nancy K
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Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?
by SpannerintheWorks into this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.
an absolutely appalling act.
who is responsible?
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Nancy K
I understand what you're saying, but this 'new' reg., process is definitely geared to middle easterners, under the guise that ALL immigrants must register..My entire family is from Finland, we are citizens, but we are not born in the US and we are not terrorists..This is racial profiling...The US is made up of all nationalities...That's what this country is all about..Our "Bush" administration is atrocious at best..This registration process reminds my family of Nazi Germany...Peace my friend!
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Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?
by SpannerintheWorks into this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.
an absolutely appalling act.
who is responsible?
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Nancy K
I personally didn't hear this, but a few people I know have all heard the same thing, that 6 of the hijackers are alive and well, and that the true hijackers were zionists and the CIA was involved..The ID's of the hijackers were phony, as I said they are alive and well and somewhere in the the Middle East...And so it goes, we will never really 'know' the truth, and forget about the news giving us the truth..A friend of mine, Samir, from Syria, was talking to me about 9-11 and how he dosen't feel 'peace' living in the US anymore, like he does in his homeland..All becauuse of this insane 'registration' process our country is imposing on people of Middle Eastern descent..I can't wait for Bush to get 'hurled' out of office..He literally makes me ill..
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Posting reunion photo soon with my granddaughter
by Nancy K indear friends, i am relatively 'new' on this website, but i have been posting about not being allowed to see my granddaughter and the 'shunning' thing..i was just going to start a court proceding(my husband is an attorney)to try and get visitation, then my dad passed away..many of you wrote to me and showered me with much needed support.
thru my dad's 'passing', i had to contact my daughter and we had a long 'talk' and she wasn't 'shunning' me after all..my sister, who is a "double-life" witness told my daughter some terrible lies about me which were ridiculous, and my daughter at that time was being treated for depression, so she didn't know what to think(as my sister is a witness, and she naturally assumed she was being truthful)..i have a damaged neurological system from 8 months of very high-dose chemo, at times i use a cane, i have chronic pain, etc.,but it is all from my illness..my sister was telling my daughter i was on drugs, and yes i am on medication, but not medication that gets one 'high', this is medication i must be on for life.
so, thru my dad's passing, a miracle has happened, after 2 years of missing my granddaughter, in a few weeks i will be spending an entire weekend with her and my grandson whom i haven't seen, so my daughter and her husband can have some 'alone' time!!
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Dear Friends, I am relatively 'new' on this website, but I have been posting about not being allowed to see my granddaughter and the 'shunning' thing..I was just going to start a court proceding(my husband is an attorney)to try and get visitation, then my Dad passed away..Many of you wrote to me and showered me with much needed support. Thru my Dad's 'passing', I had to contact my daughter and we had a long 'talk' and she wasn't 'shunning' me after all..My sister, who is a "double-life" witness told my daughter some terrible lies about me which were ridiculous, and my daughter at that time was being treated for depression, so she didn't know what to think(as my sister is a witness, and she naturally assumed she was being truthful)..I have a damaged neurological system from 8 months of very high-dose chemo, at times I use a cane, I have chronic pain, etc.,but it is all from my illness..My sister was telling my daughter I was on drugs, and yes I am on medication, but not medication that gets one 'high', this is medication I must be on for life. So, thru my Dad's passing, a miracle has happened, after 2 years of missing my granddaughter, in a few weeks I will be spending an entire weekend with her and my grandson whom I haven't seen, so my daughter and her husband can have some 'alone' time!! I just had to let you all know...I remember I had written a post that maybe a 'miracle' would happen AND IT DID!! I will not be speaking to my sister, as you may well understand. THANK YOU ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART! Nancy
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To All (My Dad died 12/21)Now Mom had a stroke
by Nancy K ini haven't been 'on' as my dad died 12/21 suddenly, before that i was about to do the 'lawsuit thing' to see my granddaughter, then 2 days ago my mother was rushed to the hospital and has had a mild stroke...i am totally out of it...but i do have 'good news'.. i'm going to see my granddaughter!!!!!
turns out, thru all of what's happened lately, i found out that my jw sister lied to my daughter 2 years ago, and she wasn't shunning me, she was upset about the fact my sister lied to her (causing this!
) it always 'comes back' as they say..karma, reaping what you sow, etc., ...thanks to all of you kind people..i can't wait to get back on and read the posts...you're doing a great service, to all like and unlike me!
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I haven't been 'on' as my Dad died 12/21 suddenly, before that I was about to do the 'lawsuit thing' to see my granddaughter, then 2 days ago my Mother was rushed to the hospital and has had a mild stroke...I am totally out of it...But I do have 'good news'.. I'M GOING TO SEE MY GRANDDAUGHTER!!!!! Turns out, thru all of what's happened lately, I found out that my JW sister lied to my daughter 2 years ago, and she wasn't shunning me, she was upset about the fact my sister lied to her (causing this!) It always 'comes back' as they say..Karma, reaping what you sow, etc., ...THANKS to all of you kind people..I can't wait to get back on and read the posts...You're doing a great service, to all like and unlike me! AND I WILL BE POSTING OUR REUNION PICTURE!!!! Thank you......